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How does one succeed in life?

10.06.2025 09:32

How does one succeed in life?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Do snipers lay on top of tank turrets during combat?

What I need from you?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Why did Donald Trump look so old during the debate?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Who are the archers in Genesis 49:23?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

That's it for today.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

What does it mean when a guy says he doesn't want to ruin the friendship? Is he rejecting me or is there another explanation? Why would a guy choose not to risk the friendship if he has feelings for me?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Why does he text me first but when I never text first he gets mad?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

How can someone effectively handle a targeted individual?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Making more friends is a goal.

Do you think the beginning of movies is often better than the rest of the film? Is this a common opinion or do others share this view?

Does not procrastinate.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What happens if someone fills up their car at the pump but leaves without paying? How is this situation typically handled?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Procrastinates a lot.

What kind of pleasure do gay men get from being bottom? The idea is very appealing to me but in practice it's quite painful.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Ask yourself:

He said he loves me, but why is it difficult for him to leave his wife?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Has Messi scored against the Buffon?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What made you recently say to yourself, “Wait. Really?”

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.